The Faith&Aloha Show

Ep 6: Irritating, Bossy... or Just Built to Lead?

Uilani Kumuhone Episode 6

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Have you ever been told you’re too much? Too loud, too bossy, too assertive?

Growing up, I was often labeled that way — and for a long time, I believed it. I learned to shrink parts of myself just to keep the peace.

But recently, something shifted. A moment with my principal — a comment I would’ve once taken as criticism — made me pause… and smile. Because maybe the traits people tried to silence were actually God-given tools for leadership.

In this episode, I’m unpacking how we can stop apologizing for our wiring and start surrendering it to God instead. What was once seen as a flaw might just be the fire behind your calling.

🎧 Tune in to hear:

  • A story about reframing “irritating” and “bossy” into purpose
  • How God redeems misunderstood traits
  • Why you don’t need to tone yourself down — just tune yourself to His voice

Mahalo for joining me today and for letting me share this space with you. Let’s keep walking in faith and aloha, together.

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Come as you are. Grow as He leads. Walk in aloha.

<3 Ui.

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